This is a compilation of things I’ve written about. It will evolve as I continue to write.
Establish a good relationship with yourself
Remember to pat yourself on the back
In which I write about how IFS has helped me work through knots in my inner world
In which I write about the notion of Self energy as described in the IFS framework, and how it manifests for me.
Don’t do things that will make you hate yourself.
On making friends
On seeing people as whole humans
Make friends that care about you
In which I write about introducing your friends to each other, so that the overall social network is strengthened and the burden of keeping in touch is lightened. Make sure to introduce your friends to each other at least 7x.
Make little friend groups of 3-4 people, and then make little groups of 3-4 friends in many cities.
On life design
In which I write about setting up your life with self-reinforcing, sustainable systems (eg where your hobbies and career and social life etc all feed into each other), so that the overall momentum flows towards thriving, as opposed to draining your energy.
On finding whole hobbies
On living
In which I write about how mastery is achieved at the incremental level.
In which I write about welcoming sadness and loneliness with love.
On hosting
Hosting 101
In which I write about this particular kind of gathering I’m keen on— something in between an art studio, an experimental performance art ritual, a party, a museum, a salon, a musical jam, and dinner with friends.
In which I write about how to be a good guest by shifting your mindset from consumption to co-creation.
